Today is the day I pledged my life to a dashing young military man with a tender heart, wicked quick wit, beautiful eyes that talk to you and amazing legs :). The future was bright and clear. We were young, innocent and naive’.
Here we are 29 years later. Those roads were not always bright and clear. There have many twists and turns: nearly loosing Brett in a military accident a few months after we married, military life, loosing our first child in miscarriage, being blessed with the our first son, stresses the nearly tore us apart, Brett’s return to college, finally coming home to our roots, having two more boys, learning to and still having to navigate in the disability world in order to help one of our sons, trying to find jobs with stability, benefits and pay, w e moved a number of times before finally settling in and planting roots. All in all, normal life stuff.
We have been blessed with three wonderful young men. It has been rewarding to watch our boys grow and become young men who love and follow Christ. Our lives have been enriched with family, both genetic and spiritual, as well as friends. The Lord has provided work that my husband loves and excels at. He topped that sundae off with a rich hot fudge, known as an amazing boss and friend for my husband. I have been blessed to spend the majority of our years at home being a wife and mom, which is my joy. We have an amazing local body of believers to serve in, to love and to be loved by.
God has been so very good to us, so much more than we deserve. We truly would not be celebrating this day, this anniversary without Christ being the center of our home. He is the glue that has held us together in both the good and the difficult times.
I can assure you, I got the better deal. I am however, very thankful for Mac’s patience, his faithfulness, his leadership and his love.
A number of years ago, we received these words from Family Life Today. I want this said about us:We Still Do Is there anything more beautiful than a young boy and girl clasping clean hands and pure hearts at the doorway of marriage? Yes!! An even more beautiful spectacle is an old man and woman finishing together on the same path were their journey began. Their hands are gnarled, but still clasped. Their faces are seamed, but still radiant. Their hearts are worn, but still devoted. Yes, more beautiful than young love is old love. On the back side:
- How can we truly embrace, enjoy and preserve such a holy, awesome promise as our marriage covenant?
- Realize our marriage is a reflection of the character of God and not the convenience of our culture.
- Accept our spouse as a gift from God and as part of His good plan for us.
- Build an enduring legacy that lasts for generations.
- Repent of our lax attitudes toward divorce
- Go the distance!!
Solidify our vows by signing a marriage covenant
Help others keep their covenants
Do what we promised in our vows